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Proverbs 22:3 – “A prudent man foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.”
Welcome to JUST STRAIGHT TALK. I’m R-E SAMPLE, and today we’re talking about Facebook — the place where family, friends, church groups, and old classmates come together. But let’s be honest, it can also be a confusing place full of strangers, scams, and strange messages.
Some folks avoid it altogether. Others dive in without protection. But the goal is to help you understand how to use Facebook safely, wisely, and with your peace and privacy intact — all while keeping Jehovah God at the center.
Jehovah God, we ask for wisdom today — not just about technology, but about people. Help us be kind without being careless, and open-hearted without leaving ourselves unguarded. Let us use these tools in ways that honor you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
What Is Facebook and why are seniors using It? Facebook is a website and app where people share pictures, thoughts, prayers, and life updates. Many seniors use it to keep up with grandchildren, church groups, and long-lost friends. You can post bible verses, join groups, watch live events, and connect with others. But along with all that good, there are risks — people pretending to be someone they’re not, links that lead to scams, and settings that might expose too much of your private life. That’s why today we’re going to talk about staying safe while still staying connected.
Step-by-Step – Privacy and Control Settings
Profile Privacy
– Go to your Facebook settings.
– Choose “Privacy Checkup.” Here, you can set who sees your posts: Public, Friends, or Only Me.
– Best option? Set most things to “Friends Only.”
Friend Requests
– Only accept requests from people you actually know. If you’re unsure, don’t click “Accept.”
– Be careful of fake accounts — they often use photos of attractive people or familiar names to trick you.
Personal Information
– Never post your full birthdate, address, or financial details.
– Avoid those “fun quizzes” that ask for your pet’s name or mother’s maiden name. That’s how scammers gather your security answers.
Messenger Messages
– If someone messages you saying they need money or a favor, even if it looks like a friend, call that person first.
– If it feels strange, it probably is.
Reporting and Blocking
– You can block anyone who makes you uncomfortable. Click their name, then “Block.”
– Report anything that feels like a scam. Facebook has a team that investigates these reports.
Password Safety
– Use a strong password, and don’t share it. Consider writing it down and storing it in a safe place.
What to Watch Out For
– Romance Scams: Someone sends you sweet messages, says they love you, then asks for money. That’s not love — that’s fraud.
– Duplicate Accounts: A friend messages you from a new account asking for help. It’s not them — it’s someone copying their profile.
– Fake Prizes: “You’ve won a new phone!” But they want your credit card to ship it. Don’t fall for it.
– Group Invitations: Be cautious about groups that seem extreme or political. Stick to encouraging, spiritual, or family-safe groups.
Staying wise with Jehovah’s help as Proverbs 22:3 reminds us, the wise person sees trouble ahead and avoids it. That’s what we’re doing today. Jehovah God gave us good minds and common sense. If you’re unsure about something on Facebook, stop and pray before clicking. Ask a family member or trusted friend if you need help.
The internet can feel overwhelming, but you’re not in this alone. You’ve got help, and you’ve got the spirit of discernment. Just like you wouldn’t leave your front door wide open, don’t leave your Facebook wide open either.
Don’t be afraid of Facebook. Use it with caution, but don’t let it steal your joy. You can enjoy seeing your grandkids grow, reading inspiring posts, and sharing God’s word with others. Just stay alert.
You’re never too old to be smart online. Set your privacy. Say no to strangers. And always — always — walk in wisdom.
God, thank you for walking with us through this digital age. Thank you for tools that help us stay connected, and thank you even more for discernment that keeps us safe. Let us be lights online, just as we are in the real world. Keep us wise, careful, and centered in you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
I’m R-E SAMPLE, and this has been JUST STRAIGHT TALK. Stay safe, stay strong, and keep walking in wisdom — even on Facebook. I’ll see you next time.
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